While on my power walk about a decade ago, I cried out to God to change my husband. The response I heard, was that he’s not the problem, I am.
This is what was needed to set the trajectory for wholeheartedness to manifest.
Wholeheartedness requires us to take an honest look at ourselves and see the egotistical mindsets that we have developed throughout our life. Then be willing to humble ourself, make changes where necessary, create new perspectives centered around love and forgiveness, along with healing our trauma.
As a result we begin to walk in freedom, but also cultivate a very open, vulnerable heart.
I use to believe we are here only to awaken to who we are, which is love and the awareness/knowing, that we are not these human bodies that will some day die and turn to dust, but rather we are the awareness of the body/mind, that is eternal. As we pull back the egotistical veils, we begin to realize we are also here to experience the love that we are, through these bodies.
I’ve come to realize for myself and working with others, that most of us follow the egotistical mindset of fear and live a life of an in between state of love and hate. We’re willing to give a portion of our heart, but never fully, due to fear of being hurt by someone or the fear of losing them to death. The draw back to withholding love from others, is that we risk the possibility of never fully experiencing the love that we are.
Through mindfulness, we remember who we are in Christ as the Awareness of the human self.
Through wholeheartedness we will be who we are.
Through embracing vulnerability, we dissolve the lies and fears that vulnerability is weakness and embrace our strength that only comes through vulnerability.
Rhonda Ferguson
Identity Theft Restorer; Teaching people who they are and their purpose in life in order to free and empower them.