“A great relationship is all about falling in love with the same person over and over again.”
Up until now, I’ve never really understood why we can’t just stay in love, and what causes us to fall out of love? The answer to both of those questions is the egotistical mind, that runs and ruins our life if we aren’t aware of it.
When we realize that everyone has an ego and that ego has two parts to it; the Victim and the Protector, along with knowing that those two parts are a false identity and not us, or the person we married, we can stay in a state of freedom/peace and light/love.
When we forget that we are not our ego and start slipping into the egotistical mind with:
Attachments to the belief of how our ego thinks things should be
Expectations of what our ego thinks we need in order for us to be happy
Judgement and giving an egotistical, negative meaning to our spouse and/or situation
Resisting what is happening, and believing our ego, that “it should be different”
This is when we enter a so called state of “hell” and fall out of love with our spouse.
We fall back in love when we:
1. Stop listening to the ego
2. Heal these mindsets with inner work
3. Continually follow our inner guidance
4. Constantly set an intention to love them the way that they feel loved
Something that has really helped me to be aware of my two headed monster (ego) and also my husband’s, is to name them. I’ve come to realize that knowing our ego has two parts is not enough, but naming them, so we can recognize them and see them as separate from us is super helpful!
Marriage Bliss is all about living in awareness, living a very intentional life to be light/love and helping each other recognize our egos, in a loving manner of: empathy, compassion and understanding.
Rhonda Ferguson
Guiding People Out of The Darkness of Their Egotistical Mind and Into The Light of What They Really Are As Light and Love.
