“Don’t Ask – Don’t Tell” is a 3rd Dimensional remedy, that keeps us in a People Pleasing Prison of hell.
Heaven and happiness is knowing what we Truly are as a Divine Being, along with what type of Avatar (human role) we are playing in this dream and fully aligning our life with these two things.
I’m noticing that many people who are business owners or in the customer service industry, wear a “Don’t ask-Don’t Tell” mask. I’m not just talking about the LGBTQ+ community, but also those who are no longer a Christian.
They tell me that they are afraid to fully reveal or divulge who they are at the risk of losing; money, clients or customers. So they live a subtle lie or a double life. Never fully able to openly be themselves, therefore they are never fully at peace.
Another problem with this is that, it causes others who want to fully come out, or come clean and live their truth, to think they are the only ones.
As someone who is fully out as an Ex-Christian, I can say with confidence; “your freedom, peace, joy and happiness is found in the truth of who you are and no longer having to hide or be fearful of how others will react. You’ll find out, that those who judge you and don’t really love you, end up leaving and they are replaced with genuine people that will honestly love, accept and affirm you.
When you fully come out and live unapologetically as you True Self, you inspire others to move out of the 3rd Dimensional People Pleasing Mindset and into the 4th Dimension where being your True Self, you can be love and light, abundance flows powerfully and then you realize you were wasting time by settling, compromising and receiving much less than you could have been, by being your True Authentic Self.
“Not only that, when Spiritual Beings realize they are here to be enlightened and inspire others to take the path less traveled of authenticity, abundance flows tremendously, because they just shifted from; service to self to service to others.” The Divine
How are our spiritual siblings going to find their way out of a false identity, if we are hiding the way out, because we are worried about the ramifications?
I had a business called RFWellness, it’s purpose was to help people heal their Mind-Body-Spirit. I started that business while I was a Christian leader and needless to say; Christians refer Christians and I was very busy and my business was thriving.
When I went through The Dark Night of The Soul/Cocoon, where I deconstructed and reconstructed my beliefs with The Divine, I emerged as a Spiritual Butterfly and left religion.
This had huge ramifications for my business. I lost almost all my Christian clients and went through a bit of a depression, having to come to terms with starting all over.
Now being on the other side of fear, while getting to be my True Authentic Self and do what I love (Teaching Identity,) without waiting for permission, I can fully love and lead those who are ready and willing, down the Awakening Path so they too can be free and live in peace.
It’s Tough, But So Worth It!
I’m not saying that this is easy, especially if you’re a leader or business owner, or your income depends on people pleasing like service jobs. This should be a slow transition, when you are ready, and most importantly; while you are following the Divine Inner Guidance, and preparing monetarily for a possible negative response like I had.
The best advice I can give you is to take the leap today, and decide that you are going to live as your True Authentic Self, no longer waiting for anyone’s permission.
Gypsy Spirit of Avatar Rhonda
Guiding people out of the darkness of their false identity and into the light of what they truly are.
